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I was celibate for three years before divorce – Kaffy

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Nigerian dancer and choreographer, Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, better known as Kaffy, recently disclosed that she refrained from having sex with her husband, Joseph Ameh, three years before their divorce over alleged infidelity.

Featured on the latest episode of #WithChude hosted by media personality, Chude Jideonwo, the mother of two spoke about

The entertainer tied the knot with her music director husband, Ameh, in 2012.

Kaffy however confirmed the end of the union, which produced two children, months after rumours of their split surfaced online.

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During the interview, the dancer claimed her ex-husband cheated on her with her best friend.

Adding that the incident had its toll on her and she only started healing when she stopped having sex with her husband.

“Let me tell you when I started healing; when I stopped sleeping with my husband. I was celibate in my marriage for three years before getting a divorce. I now understand that marriage is an alignment of assignment.”

“There are different kinds of red flags that we women in love are so blinded by. If I had known, I would have not jumped into it,” she added.

“I was thinking in the beginning that I have found someone that would make me happy.

“That’s the most selfish thinking that any human being can have for another human being.”

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The dancer also recounted how her parents endured domestic violence in their marriage.

According to her, her parents often use sharp objects like knives and forks whenever they fought.

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I’m not your Christian saviour, not here to uphold beliefs about God — Tems

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Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has told her followers that she is not their christian saviour, neither is she trying to uphold their beliefs about God.

The singer made this known via her Twitter page on Tuesday.

Tems also said she is who she is and not trying to impress anyone.

She wrote, “I don’t know who needs to hear this, but I am not your Christian saviour. I didn’t come here to uphold your beliefs about God.
“I will not fit into this box you try to put me in. I won’t satisfy you in that area. Please find the person that will or ask yourself why you care.

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“I don’t brag because I’m not playing the same game. I don’t need to brag. I am who I am, whether you know it or not. It is the house that is built on the solid rock that will withstand the storm. I’m trying to impress myself, not you.”

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Man takes N120k loan, uses N119k to bet and lost (Video)

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Nigerian man has narrated how a customer took a loan from a popular microfinance bank and lost almost everything to sports betting.

He shared the man’s story in a documentary about the dangers of gambling and people who are addicted to the act.

The young bet centre operator said that the man visited the microfinance bank and took a loan of N120,000 using his brother as guarantor.

But the shocking part is that as he was leaving, he entered his virtual betting centre which was in the same building.

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He then used N119,000 out of the money to bet, unfortunately he lost it all. Feeling frustrated by the outcome, he used the remaining N1k to buy weed and alcohol.

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Chimamanda Adichie declined the national honors, media aide says

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Award-winning Nigerian author, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, who was recently decorated with Harvard University’s iconic W.E.B. Du Bois Medal, has broken her silence over her non-appearance at the conferment of national honours ceremony by President Buhari. on Tuesday, October 11.

Putting the records straight, a member of Chimamanda’s communications team, Omawumi Ogbe, told The Guardian that she declined the honour.⁣

“Following the recent conferment of national awards by the President, there have been conflicting reports about one of the announced recipients, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Some social media users say the award-winning writer rejected the award, while others say she accepted it.⁣

The author did not accept the award and, as such, did not attend the ceremony. She, however, did not want to create undue publicity around it, so her non-acceptance was conveyed privately,” Ogbe said.

While conferring the award on 450 Nigerians and foreigners, President Buhari had justified the honours, saying the awardees had distinguished themselves in the service of the nation and humanity.⁣

“We have among the recipients today, Amb. Prof. Tijjani Muhammad-Bande, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Ms. Amina J. Mohammed and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, who are doing our country proud on the international scene. Our dear sisters are a source of inspiration to our young women that through the dint of hard work and dedication, they can achieve greatness,” ⁣the President said.

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